...you need to change your thinking.
The #1 barrier to change is PRIDE so you (and I) need to take the first step to break the barrier by simply stop pretending that we have it all together and start admitting that we don't..so that we can!
When we do it, others will be influenced and inspired to do the same...
Here is what I am reminding myself :
"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind" Romans 12:2 (NIV)